Here, O girl

Here, O girl
Sheikh / Hussein ElDesoki
 
Sisters .. whisper in your ear the words I wrote you of my concern for you.

فاسمحي me to address your mind quiet dialogue.

Read the do not Therba, Aakla then Ahkami.

Sisters .. Do you have a relationship with the opposite sex? And what kind?!

And before Tchibey the cheaper you shame and thinking.

Tsarahinni and honestly that there is anticipation to talk to (friends of the opposite sex) is different in nature from aspiration to talk with the (Friends of sex)?

But if I wondered: you could Tasiri the one life partner who was one day your friend?

Indeed, he says: It is of course not.

Because this young man looking at his girlfriend's university days on it - Sorry - wife (SECOND HAND) are no longer suitable to him, looking at his wife other than what is seen (his girlfriend university days) those younger open, many laughing and joking, the most attractive for young people, it is - and no matter what behavior - seen as the wife completely counterproductive look but, if much of what he loved (his girlfriend) does not like to find in his openness and courage and draw attention to it.

Critical and painful consequences

Too often arose the relationship between a young man and a girl school days and has evolved rapidly between them to what is more than (Fellowship of normal), both want to recognize the other more, and bless the family of this relationship which could last years of the study, but the fact that this relationship usually ended distinction with between them, is heading to his new life after the change of circumstances and the crash dreams Rosary (Satanic) on the rock of reality.

Atafrqan as if nothing had happened! The fact that they Atafrqan leaving behind them a lot of psychological consequences painful and critical social question marks, especially you thou girl.

Astrdjaa in your mind stories from تعرفينهم of peers and colleagues you do any of this frequent repetition.

Cost and made

- Muslim, O wise - The relationship between the young man and the girl at this stage are often coated with a sheath of (affectation and artificiality) disappears behind many of the real qualities of both parties and that does not appear only in real life crises with cohabitation.

Muslim and clothe chastity and honor

My sister Muslim if your Islam is not a rigid feelings but it is a natural religion that if a body would dress Islam is the dress detailed them, and the tendency of the sexes each to the other instinct and the instinct كساها Islam dress of honor and chastity and purity gown is legitimate marriage, then praise God for the blessing of Islam to marry.

God said in Nisa after that permitted slaves to marry, recalled what it has permitted and forbidden Allah said:

"God wants to show you and guide you ways of those before you, and you repent and Allah is Knower, Wise. God wants to repent you who wants to follow the desires of that inclined miles great. God wants to relieve you, and man was created weak"

So it wants us good is God our Lord?!

Who created بضعفنا embarking us to marry pure, clean image for the treatment of this weakness.

It wants us to tilt and fall of our enemies?!

Who Akhaddonna the bright slogans and words such as false friendship innocent, fun and humor,

And polite mixing of feelings, and other slogans Satan dictated them to his God.

Sisters .. Be careful before a fall!

Your relationship if a colleague or a friend or relative under any name will not innocent styling instinct or helps to establish a relationship clean.

But it is a fall day that Aibak rake and rises above you modest (obligor) Fathrmin marry beautiful because of a misunderstanding and the disposal of, or perhaps the wheel to choose (years inattention) have forgotten that a happy marriage livelihood of the God of Tjlh prematurely punished by depriving him, and where he is from Allah what God can not be attained unless his consent, Vantbha to God bless before Isahd the Vic men and تخسرين the beautiful marriage.

're Looking for happiness disobeying God?!

Trying O Muslim that Tnala happiness disobedience of God the Almighty?

The God said, "It is to introduce remembrance of him is a life of hardship," Taha (124)

Or not your relationship with your friend or colleague symptoms of all is God Almighty who forbade believing women to look at the men also forbade the faithful to look at women Almighty said:

"Say to the believing men to lower their gaze and keep guard That is purer for them that Allah is Aware of what they do. Say to the believing women lower their gaze and furnishing the marital فروجهن supposed to reveal their adornment only that which is apparent and stamp their بخمرهن as the bosoms" light (30-31)

Let alone what is more to consider which of the necessities of this relationship (Kalmsafhh, fun and humor ... and other things that you know)?!!

Be of good works, good things

And Amtthlee is God leave this mixing and those relationships to demand when the Almighty God the Almighty said

"Taiyebat good and الطيبون of the good things"

If Islam has forbidden the mixing of male and female siblings in their beds, door fortify the souls of sedition used the pretext door, let alone mixing widening gender forms claiming kinship and friendship, neighborliness and fellowship, work and other ..

Is not this the whole first forbidden and taboo?!!

He said peace be upon him "What is left behind me any fitnah more harmful to men than women"

How can we combine Lothario and المفتون (between men and women) and say that it is simple and will deliver sound as long as the intention and the relationship innocent.

Oaredak to be a means of Satan to misguide the servants of God and Gwighthm?!!

Or íÓÚĎß that you will be a Muslim occurrence in no man's land?!!

What if I leave the interaction between boys and girls and men and women open, accompanied by whom He will accompany those who wish?!

Do you look disappear instinctive tendency between the sexes, to be replaced by - as alleged Alzaamon - mutual respect?!

Here, let the numbers speak louder than language characters to tell us that in America one of the statistics showed that 19 million women there were victims of rape book (day America recognized the truth)

In an opinion poll conducted by the Italian Federation of Psychiatric admitted it (17%) of the Italian men that they have betrayed their wives.

In Germany alone, raped (35) A German woman annually and this number represents incidents officially registered with the police, criminal police say there that rape is recorded up to five times that figure.

This is the reality of some of the alleged civil societies and civilization and called for what they call freedom in handling and mixing between the sexes.

Will Say prices arousal Crazy?!!

Or originated - as they claim - the relationship between men and women on the basis of mutual respect?!!

Or perhaps those numbers for this incident is part of mutual respect that they want between men and women?!!